Monday 7 March 2016

Sharing our faith 21.2 16

This morning I want to talk about sharing our faith and then look at practical ways that can we do this.

Firstly though I think the starting point for sharing our faith is having a faith that we believe is worth sharing.

It’s having a faith that we want others to share because we’re convinced that it will be good for them.

And this comes from both experiencing the love and goodness of God in our own lives - and also understanding what Jesus has done for us on the cross.

The people who tend to be most enthusiastic about sharing their faith are those for whom it has made the most difference to their lives.

Often people whose lives were falling apart – who were drug addicts or alcoholics or who were in prison –– make the most enthusiastic evangelists.

And this is because they are so amazed and delighted with the difference that God has made to their lives.

And they want to help others to get to know this God who has given them hope and a future – who has turned the darkness of their lives to light.

Now some of you might be thinking – well I’ve never really experienced the depths of despair or hopelessness that some of these people probably have – so my faith story isn’t as dramatic as that.

But if God is in your life – hasn’t He made a difference to it? Hasn’t He helped and encouraged you? On occasion haven’t you felt His presence and His love?

Don’t you derive comfort from being able to pray to him? And don’t you always 
have hope – whatever life throws at you – because you know God?

And wouldn’t your family and friends and neighbours benefit from this same comfort and hope?

Often in fact, people can identify more with our less dramatic or seemingly run of the mill faith stories - because they too haven’t been in the depths of despair or in prison.

So on the one the one hand – as Christians we have an experience of God to share – our faith story if you like – how we came to faith; what God means to us and how He has helped us – and on the other hand we have the gospel, the good news of what Jesus has done for us - to share.

And the more we understand what Jesus has done for us, the more we should want to share it - because it’s completely amazing.

Do you realise that the moment you believed in Jesus – the moment you said yes to God and invited Him into your life – He saved you forever?

He forgave you for everything you had ever done wrong or would ever do wrong in the future.

He saved you from judgment and being eternally separated from Him.

He came to live in your life with the promise that He will never leave or abandon you.

He made you his beloved child, a member of His family and household and He promises that one day – whatever life may throw at you - you will enjoy eternity in heaven with Him.

God himself in the body of Jesus - died on the cross for you. He took all your sin and was punished in your place – so you could be free from condemnation.

Now if that isn’t worth sharing with others I don’t know what is?

Personally I feel incredibly fortunate to be a Christian. So many people don’t know Jesus – and yet we have the tremendous privilege of knowing God.

Don’t you want your friends and neighbours and family to share in this amazing privilege as well - so that they too can know God and be saved?

And isn’t it therefore worth using any opportunities that come along to try and tell those around us that there is a God who loves them tremendously – and who wants a relationship with them so much - that he has died on the cross for them to make this possible.

But how in practice can we do this?

Well here are a few of my thoughts.

Firstly we must make the decision that we want to be known as Christians. How can people ask us questions about our faith if they don’t even know we’re a Christian?

Really we should be proud of our faith and it should be an integral part of who we are.

How can people get to know us if we hide the most important thing in our lives from them?

If embarrassment or shyness is a real problem for you then I would suggest praying and asking God for boldness. Perhaps also ask Him for an opportunity to share your faith with someone who will be friendly and kind – to build your confidence.

So how can we be known as Christians? Well there are lots of ways we can do this. Campbell told me for instance that when he worked in London he used to leave a couple of Christian books on his desk – and that sometimes this would lead to a conversation.

We can put a Christian sticker or logo on our car – although I took mine off a few years ago when Mary my wife pointed out that my driving wasn’t always the best 
Christian witness.

We can wear little badges or crosses –if that’s our thing.

On Facebook or social media we can state that we are a Christian and if we like something with a Christian angle or message we can share it.

If any of you use Twitter you can follow people like Nicky Gumbel and share any tweets you like.

All these things help to identify us as a Christian – and can lead to opportunities to share our faith.

I shared a video on Facebook of some young Christians in Australia praying for people to be healed on the street  – and I got into a conversation with a Facebook friend of my sister – who was dubious about Christian healing.

So we’ve identified ourselves as Christians but how should we share our faith?

Well Peter says in his letter – “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.”

So the emphasis here isn’t on trying to thrust our faith down people’s throats at every opportunity.

Rather it’s being ready to explain why we believe in God and what our faith means to us when people ask us about it.

The important thing here is that we don’t need to be theological experts. We just need to be honest and express in simple everyday language what we think and believe.

It’s also important to remember that if we are willing to share our faith the Holy Spirit will help us to find the right words to say.

If people ask us a question we don’t know the answer to – like why does God allows suffering – it’s fine to be honest and say that we don’t know the answer to that.

Having said this, Nicky Gumbel who does the Alpha course - has written a book called ‘Searching Issues’ where he covers some of the big questions that people may ask – and offers a few suggestions as to how we can respond.

And of course sharing our faith doesn’t always mean entering into theological discussions.

We can offer to pray for people who are unwell or facing problems. For instance if a friend or work colleague is going through a difficult time in their marriage or with their health we can just say - I’ll pray for you.

If we offer to pray for someone though – we must mean it and do it.

If we’re really brave – and it seems appropriate - we can offer to pray with people. Sometimes people like the re-assurance of someone praying with them.

We can send people Christmas or birthday or get well cards with bible verses that we feel are appropriate written in them.

We can write letters to friends or family explaining the gospel or telling them that we’re thinking of them and praying for them – or perhaps suggesting they try a particular church or do an Alpha course.

When my French aunt was diagnosed with cancer I sent her a letter telling her that I was praying for her – and quoting part of the 23rd Psalm which I hoped she’d find comforting.

We can give people Christian books or CD’s we think they’ll like. We can send people e-mails with links to websites or YouTube videos we think they may find 
interesting or helpful.

We can buy our nephews and nieces or grandchildren - children’s bibles when they’re little. Or we can buy them films or animations with a Christian message as presents.

When my children were young they loved a series of animated Christian videos called Veggie Tales which were very funny – but had a Christian message.

And as Campbell has said on a few occasions – one of the best things we can do is to invite someone to church – where they can hear the gospel for themselves.

So there are all sorts of ways we can encourage and help people to find their own faith in Jesus.

If we do identify ourselves as Christians and seek to share our faith, we should also do our best to be loving and patient and generous and kind.

We should be people that others can confide in without fear of being judged or condemned.

Of course we’re not perfect – but hopefully people should see something of the love of God in us.

If people find us unfriendly, impatient and selfish – they are unlikely to want listen to what we might say about God because our lives and characters don’t back up our words.

Seeking to love people is fundamental to sharing our faith – because the God we want to help people come to know is love – and loving actions carry more weight than words alone.

In fact our whole motivation for wanting to share our faith should be because we love and care for those around us – and want the best for them.

And finally of course we should be praying for people around us to be saved and to come to know God and for opportunities to share our faith with them.

Generally the more people pray – the more effective they’ll be at sharing their faith with others.

Ultimately however – we need to decide that we’re prepared to take a risk and speak about our faith when the opportunity arises.

And the more we do it the more comfortable we’ll feel.

If you’re a Christian it’s because others cared enough to speak to you about God and encouraged you to seek Him.

Think about the people who helped you on your faith journey – and try to do the same for others.

In the name of the living God. Amen.